Sex and marijuana might seem like a perfect match since they’re both activities we do because of the way they make us feel (and it’s usually pretty good). But, while toking and making the beast with two backs are two of life’s most pleasurable experiences, are they truly better when done together?

You may have heard stories that praise cannabis as a libido booster or the miracle remedy for men who have trouble lasting in bed, but the same has been said about many things that haven’t turned out to be accurate. In truth, there are varying opinions when it comes to the effects of cannabis on sex, and it can be vastly different whether you are a man or woman. And men, if you are planning to start a family, some of the impacts of pot on your body will be crucial for you to take into consideration.

To get to the quick and dirty details, we researched some of the myths and facts about mixing marijuana and baby makin’, and whether you could be doing more harm than good by combining them. Check out the video above to see how you can strike the perfect balance between your two favorite things.